Sunday, 26 July 2020

You Are A Good Mom!!

Yes you are. 
Not just one, there are so many reasons that you are a good mom. Did the society try to tell you otherwise?
Nevermind...
Trust me you are a good mom.
* You woke up all those nights to just let your baby sleep well... You are a good mom.
* You made sure the little tummy was always full, despite missing out on your own meals... You are a good mom.
* Your little one always looked tidy and clean, no matter how messy your hair and clothes were... You are a good mom.
* You changed those diapers all the day long... You are a good mom.
* When your tiny human was sick, you were there to hold her tight.. You are a good mom.
* You always answered to the hundreds of questions she asked you every day... You are a good mom.
*You managed to handle your cute little baby as well as the work at home... You are a good mom. 
* You tried your best to care for your sweet little child when you yourself were not feeling great... You are a good mom. 
* You kissed every time your little angel had a boo boo... You are a good mom.
*You sacrificed your career for the beautiful soul, being selfless... You are a good mom.
* You did your best to teach your kid to be the best version of yourself... You are a good mom. 
* You had all the patience in the world to care for your child... You are a good mom. 
* Just trying your best at being a good mom.. makes you a good mom. 
Just incase no one had been telling you this.... You are a good mom!!

Friday, 29 May 2020

Positivity In Quarantine!!

Positive is sure not a good word in 2020... Everyone is scared of being positive 🙈
All jokes apart... 
Otherwise it is the best word, or feeling or energy I would say. 
This quarantine, which we needed to bond with our families, know the importance of our work, be happy about the home we have... And also let the earth heal.... We had a lot of time to think. 
To think about life... About what we have been doing or will be doing in the future..
What the life has in store for us and what we have in store for ourselves..
Making the best of the time we have..
Staying positive about the circumstances, about the things we possess, about what we all are going through.
Adapting the mess.. being prepared for it to be more messy. 
This quarantine has or should have taught us about what life actually means...
The trips, the outings, going for parties and wearing branded clothes, searching for a five star restaurant... This should not be life alone... 
Spending time with friends ( whome we are missing), cherishing time with our kids ( who miss us when we our at work), being their for our family... Is what should matter...
Finding faults with everything is easy... But saying good and positive things about everyone and everything is difficult.
So this quarantine as it still continues.. let us all be positive for whatever we have in our lives... And try to make best out of everything ❣️❣️

Wednesday, 27 May 2020

Gratitude For The Loving Family ❤️❤️

Growing up my absolutely favorite day was a Sunday!! 
The evening especially... Why?? Because everyone was home that day. To sit and spend time with each other... Talk.. have rajma rice or kadi rice to eat.. then some snacks in the evening. 
Was it just that?? 
Actually no.
It was a feeling of being together..
Together as a family... Being there for each other... Being loved and loving everyone at home.
Saying I Love You to your family isn't the best thing in the world.
Meaning that you love your family is the best thing in the world. 
Being there for the ups and downs... May be miles away... But being the support system or having the support system is important.
My family is my support system. What about yours??
Cherish each moment with them... Show that you love them.. show that you care for them... And mean it.
Family is the best gift you can ever possess.
Forget the difference. Bond with love ❤️

Monday, 27 April 2020

The sound of Silence!

Lockdown.... 
Can you hear anything?
Yes I can... I can hear the birds chirping.
The dogs barking.
The wind blowing. 
The leaves moving.
Moving of the empty swings as its windy.

Can you see anything around?
Yes I can... I can see the empty roads.
People sitting in balconies waiting to meet each other.
I can see a clear sky.
I can see the empty playgrounds.
I can see the birds flying with joy in the beautiful blue sky.

Can you smell anything different?
Yes I can.. I can smell the pure air around me.
The fragrance of the flowers.
Everything except the pollution.

They say the earth is healing.. but do we actually like it? Or will we be the same after its all gone.. I hope so.
Today we go out with our own shopping bags... Avoiding plastic because it might infect us... Where were we when we all were infecting the earth? We were lost in our own world... And now we should realise what a mistake we have made.. 
Its all about reciprocation... The earth will give back what we give it.. what goes around comes back.
So lets all pledge to be the same after the lockdown... And not to go back to being the old us.. but become the new person the earth needs us to be.
This too shall pass.. its rightly said.. but we should change overselves so that we don't have to phase another lockdown ever.

Saturday, 21 March 2020

Home Quarantine 🙏

Self Isolation... Is it that a big deal to do to save our lives or our loved ones life?
No its not... Staying at home and doing nothing is what the whole year we crib for... And now when the government has asked us to stay at home and not come out, we want to go to office suddenly, or to our shops, or for any of the work we do. 
Why? Do we always have to oppose the government? Are they always wrong? 
Actually NO. This time if you are not listening to them you are wrong. 
Don't be a hero thinking nothing will happen... May be nothing happens to you.. you might just be a carrier but what about the elderly at your home or the kids at home... Do you think they have as strong immunity as you have?? 
The answer is NO again... So for the sake of the people around you please stay home.. they will think you are a hero only if they don't see you around 🙏 
Spread the word... Stay at home.. Be in Quarantine for a few days. 
It won't hurt. 

Wednesday, 18 March 2020

The Virus!🌐🗺️👾

Is it real??
Should I be scared??
Should I take those precautions??
Should I stay at home??
The answer to all of it is YES!
More than 50% people in India might not be taking it seriously or even might not be aware about the disease... Owing to such large population in our country and such high illiteracy rate, we can't even think that it won't spread. People still think that it is a disease which only effects the people who have come from abroad, or the elderly and children. Lack of awareness, lack of proper knowledge and resistance to stay in isolation for a while will lead to a larger and uncontrollable spread of the disease.
Thinking that the disease will only effect the elderly or the children is so not acceptable. For once if we agree that it won't effect the younger generation much, but does that mean the younger generation doesn't have elderly or kids at home?
Then why being a source of infection to someone who won't be able to handle it well due to the compromised immune system. Selfish it is.
Why not sitting at home for a few days, taking necessary precautions and doing our part to save our country and save our planet. 
Its something many people are not ready to think about. 
Stay quarantine... Stay healthy.
Prevent the spread. 

Sunday, 15 March 2020

Mommyhood 💖💖

Mommyhood...
What exactly is it to be a mother?
It's a feeling of being loved and loving back...
It's a treasure which you possess in your heart forever...
It's something you can feel only when you become a mommy...
It's scary...
It's demanding..
It's fierce...
It's messy...
It's falling in love at the first sight...
It's a gift...
It's a responsibility...
But above all its something that changes you for good and forever... 
It's a blessing... 
It's a grace... 
It's beauty...
It's something you will cherish the rest of your  life...
Yes your life changes.... Freedom is all gone... But there comes a purpose... A purpose of raising a beautiful tiny human to become an amazing, genuine and a kind hearted person...
A purpose to make this new life as meaningful as possible...
A purpose of doing the best you can to make this little person the best that can be...
It's a Ray of Sun...
It's AAVYA ( God's Gift) 💖

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